Date Me…

Let’s get intimate in a no-holds-barred chat, once a month

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Sterling Dates

I’d love to date you. Would you date me?

Once a month, I like to get intimate with my lovers over an hour of no-holds-barred chat. Ask me anything, share anything. It’s our date — a chance to get to know one another. So, will I see you on the next Sterling Date?

Who knows what the conversation may inspire me to write next.

Don’t be a stranger, and don’t be shy. I don’t bite — unless that happens to turn you on 😉

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What exactly is a Sterling Date?

An hour of intimacy between my lovers and me. A freewheeling, no-holds-barred interaction in a chat room. No agenda, no script. We talk about whatever you want — my stories, your life, what you are curious about, what you want to ask me. I will answer what I choose to answer. Will I see you on the next Sterling Date?

Is it really no holds barred?

Well, almost. Don’t ask me for nude pics and don’t share dick picks unless you want to get kicked. I will not share things I am not ready to share and I will not answer questions that cross lines I have set for myself. But that shouldn’t stop you from being yourself, asking or sharing whatever you want to. Ask away and I might surprise you.

How do I join the next Sterling Date?

RSVP using the form on this page. When you sign in with your name and email — real or an alias — I will know you will be there. And I look forward to seeing you there.

Can I join anonymously?

You can attend without signing in, but I would rather know your name. It changes the conversation when I can address you directly. Besides, I like participants more than spectators 😉

How many people attend?

I try to keep it small deliberately. I want actual conversations, not a broadcast. Capacity is limited — if the RSVP is full, join the newsletter and you will hear about the next one first.

Will there be a recording?

Ooh… kinky! But sorry, no recordings. What happens on the date stays there — unless you want something shared, and even then I will ask first.